how to:

stay abstinent before marriage
instructions

Moderately Challenging

Step1

Start young because abstinence is best achieved through a lifestyle quite different than the current world view.

Step2

Join a church. Having a strong Christian influence in your life will greatly aid your quest for abstinence.

Step3

Avoid sexual thoughts, images, conversations and situations as much as possible. There is no point in teasing yourself with something you should not experience until you are married.

Step4

Spend time filling your head with encouraging thoughts and simply non-sexual thoughts on a regular basis.

Step5

Date people who you know feel the same way about abstinence. Dating someone who does not feel the same way will end badly.

Step6

Avoid alcohol and drugs because these substances affect your ability to think straight and may lead to a moment of weakness.

Step7

Confide in a friend who is like minded and encourage one another to stay strong.

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